Sunday, May 07, 2006

Soulmate!??


~Lost in you~


We all yearn for a relationship where our partner feels what we feel, wants what we want and loves us unconditionally... where we never have to fear being rejected, deserted or betrayed. Can this ever really be? Well, there are few lucky couples who have found each other and are living “happily ever after” n they are o'course "soulmates"!
So... does this soulmate tie come from sharing of many past lives together? It is said that soulmates make a pact to reincarnate at the same time so they can experience and learn life’s lessons together. What is it... a very strong love bond between the two souls?? However, there can be the opposite--a very strong hate bond. Then the two individuals can be coming together so their souls can work through the hate and turn it into love. **giggles** May be one can be in a soulmate relationship without knowing it. Like living past-life karma, dramas from past lives together that are blocking the souls’ true love for each other.... heheeheee... sounds very mystic!
How do you know if you are with your soulmate now, or if you have met, or know your soulmate already? What happens when they first meet... are they irresistibly drawn to each other?? Will one o'them have a very strong sense that they knew the other from before?? A feeling of déjà vu?? Or perhaps everything about this person just seems so familiar, but you don’t know why!??
A very close friend of mine once told me about her views on this.... and this is what she told me... "Within a very short time of meeting, you find a strong kinship, a powerful empathy, and frequently you'll be able to read each other’s thoughts. You may even notice that you think alike, that you process information in the same manner. You may have much in common, perhaps too much for two people who come from different backgrounds" hmmm... so these are the clues and signs.
But how about the bubbleheads like me!?? I won't even know even if the person is standing right next to me! So does that mean that my soulmate is a kewl smart chap who will feel that divine spark and make realization dawn upon me!? heheheee... Go dude!... am not a bad interpreter afterall! So someonez goin to come in front of me and shout their lungs out saying, "It is me! It is me!" till that bulb in the remote corner of my heart/mind glows. Jokes apart... I'm not thaaaaat dumbhead too.... I did feel the spark once... and the ball is now in my court... the dialogue to shout is mine! Let me see how much I can put across!
And one thing people....do consider yourself blessed if you have found your true mate, even if only for a short interlude.