Having just crossed over the finish line (I mean completing my so-called-important task at office, of course), I can finally take a breather as well more space to ponder over what to blog about today. Ok, first of all, the dreaded Valentine's Day that passed by... don't get me wrong d'ya? I used to love V-day. I mean it is the day to reaffirm your devotion to your loved one, spend some mushy time together doing well... mushy stuff and exchange Valentine gifts. Aww, that's all nice and sweet but there is a minor problem. Where is THE person I'm looking for?? I am anticipating only another few months of dateless celebrations.
I believe Valentine's day is over commercialized and overrated but this year, I didn't want to fire a round of salvo against it but rather I wanted to talk about my preference for the person, who hopefully will end up as my soulmate one day. I do get remarks from my friends who say that I am overly choosy and have an unrealistically high expectatation level when it comes to choosing... ahem...boyfriend. Truth is, I am not that choosy (wink wink) but I am only being selective over what I want. Hey, c'mon if that person is going to be your potential life time companion, you have to choose carefully don't you?
First of all, he must be pleasant looking. I don't mean that he has to look handsome-hunk-types but that would be sweet though. What I meant is that he must be good to look at. Ok before anyone accuse me being a shallow person, hey it is my choice and I want my darling to look good. And I quote what a good friend of mine said "We are programmed in our DNA to admire handsome guyz", so eat that.
Oh did I also mention that he must have a good body? I am not asking for a perfect muscle bag, but rather I meant, he should not look malnutritioned (heheheeee). I dislike guyzs who are too thin and bony. It sort of makes me feel as if they are not eating well and unhealthy. And he must not be temperamental. While I do have my share of mood swings, I never burst out my emotions as far as I can remember. I hate that and I certainly don't tolerate anyone doing that to me. If he is unhappy over some things then he should just share it out, not burst it out. Relationship is about proper communication right? And also, he shouldn't be overly particular over nitty gritty stuff. Look, I am a 'chubbly-bubbly' gal (that means easy going) and I would expect him to be the same too but definitely more saner than me. Any signs of volatile emotions is an instant turn-off for me.
Besides physical appearance, intelligence is a BIG attraction to me. I am simply turn on with guys who speak intelligently. I do want him to possess an IQ of a genius but definitely not too much that I feel intimidated by it.(Lolzzzz) Someone who shares a deeper thought of life and things surrounding them will surely fall in my good books. In a way, it does mean that I am seeking for someone with the same wave length as mine. Smart, Suave... sweet! Communication to me is important and having the same communication channel will be easier for feelings to be conveyed and understood.
And since I am a Libran, I believe in balance. Balance in life and everything I do. Hence, I don't want someone who is overly homely and neither do I like someone who partyz every night. He should be somewhere in the middle (though I prefer a slightly more inclined towards staying at home :P) Also, I would expect my man to care of me as much as I do for him. (This is dead common sense right?)
To be continued... (duh!)
I believe Valentine's day is over commercialized and overrated but this year, I didn't want to fire a round of salvo against it but rather I wanted to talk about my preference for the person, who hopefully will end up as my soulmate one day. I do get remarks from my friends who say that I am overly choosy and have an unrealistically high expectatation level when it comes to choosing... ahem...boyfriend. Truth is, I am not that choosy (wink wink) but I am only being selective over what I want. Hey, c'mon if that person is going to be your potential life time companion, you have to choose carefully don't you?
First of all, he must be pleasant looking. I don't mean that he has to look handsome-hunk-types but that would be sweet though. What I meant is that he must be good to look at. Ok before anyone accuse me being a shallow person, hey it is my choice and I want my darling to look good. And I quote what a good friend of mine said "We are programmed in our DNA to admire handsome guyz", so eat that.
Oh did I also mention that he must have a good body? I am not asking for a perfect muscle bag, but rather I meant, he should not look malnutritioned (heheheeee). I dislike guyzs who are too thin and bony. It sort of makes me feel as if they are not eating well and unhealthy. And he must not be temperamental. While I do have my share of mood swings, I never burst out my emotions as far as I can remember. I hate that and I certainly don't tolerate anyone doing that to me. If he is unhappy over some things then he should just share it out, not burst it out. Relationship is about proper communication right? And also, he shouldn't be overly particular over nitty gritty stuff. Look, I am a 'chubbly-bubbly' gal (that means easy going) and I would expect him to be the same too but definitely more saner than me. Any signs of volatile emotions is an instant turn-off for me.
Besides physical appearance, intelligence is a BIG attraction to me. I am simply turn on with guys who speak intelligently. I do want him to possess an IQ of a genius but definitely not too much that I feel intimidated by it.(Lolzzzz) Someone who shares a deeper thought of life and things surrounding them will surely fall in my good books. In a way, it does mean that I am seeking for someone with the same wave length as mine. Smart, Suave... sweet! Communication to me is important and having the same communication channel will be easier for feelings to be conveyed and understood.
And since I am a Libran, I believe in balance. Balance in life and everything I do. Hence, I don't want someone who is overly homely and neither do I like someone who partyz every night. He should be somewhere in the middle (though I prefer a slightly more inclined towards staying at home :P) Also, I would expect my man to care of me as much as I do for him. (This is dead common sense right?)
To be continued... (duh!)
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